EPISODE #41 - GUILT & FEAR (With Cliff Roth)
SUMMARY
We all feel emotions and how we respond to them shapes us and our relationships. Guilt and fear are two big emotions that express truth about a need that we have as created beings. Rick speaks with Cliff Roth, Executive Director of Crosspoint Ministries, about how our feelings - specifically guilt and fear - point to truths about humans that lead us back to an identity in Christ.
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QUESTIONS DISCUSSED
What is guilt? What is fear?
How do guilt and fear impact our relationships?
How do emotions point to a created need?
What is the difference between true and false guilt?
How do these things play out in marriage, singleness, and the Church?
What is attachment and the attachment styles?
How are fear, shame, guilt and our attachments related/connected?
How does the gospel speak to all of this?
How do we become relationally healthier?
RESOURCES/REFERENCES
To learn more about and/or contact Crosspoint Ministry, visit https://www.crosspointministry.com/
The Voice of the Heart by Chip Dodd
The Relational Soul by Richard Plass and James Cofield
Chip Dodd’s The Eight Feelings, adapted by Cliff Roth
Genesis 2:4-25 - Creation of man and woman
Matthew 26:39 - Jesus reveals where he is emotionally in the Garden of Gethsemane
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EPISODE #40 - CHURCH MEMBERSHIP (With Michael Lawrence)
SUMMARY
Church membership can often seem like the first step to joining an exclusive club. In reality, it is nothing like that, but so much more! Scripture is clear about many things that have to do with the function of the church. Though membership is never explicitly stated, it is very clear that there was structure within the early church. With the help of guest Michael Lawrence, Rick asks the hard questions about church membership and it's role in the local church and God's Kingdom at large.
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QUESTIONS DISCUSSED
Is membership in the Bible? If not, why do we do it?
Isn’t membership exclusive?
Isn’t membership used for church leaders to be in control?
Where do we see membership in church history?
What is the connection between the sacraments and membership?
If someone is already dedicated to the church, why do they have to be members?
What is beautiful about membership?
RESOURCES/REFERENCES
Believer's Baptism: Sign of the New Covenant in Christ by Thomas R. Schreiner and Shawn Wright
The Lord's Supper: Remembering and Proclaiming Christ Until He Comes by Thomas R. Schreiner, Matthew R. Crawford
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EPISODE #39 - THE IMPLICATIONS OF RESURRECTION (With Sean Duncan)
SUMMARY
Many non-Christians are skeptical about Jesus' resurrection. Perhaps they simply have a misunderstanding about it being a physical resurrection, not just a spiritual one. Some Christians may not even be equipped to defend the historicity of the resurrection and may not know its importance to the Christian life. Brad talks with Sean Duncan about how the historical truth of the resurrection means everything to the Christian - from our ability to share the full Gospel to our very salvation.
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QUESTIONS DISCUSSED
What is the resurrection?
What is the significance of the resurrection? What does it mean for Christians?
What are the historical evidences of the resurrection?
How do we know that the resurrection wasn’t a fabricated story?
Are there extra-biblical sources proving the resurrection?
What is the theological significance of the resurrection?
How does the truth of the resurrection, both historically and theologically, help us as saints?
What is the importance of sharing both Jesus’ death and resurrection when sharing the Gospel?
RESOURCES/REFERENCES
Acts 2:14-21 - The beginning of the church
1 Corinthians 15:6 - Many have seen Jesus
Letter to Skeptics by Dr. Gregory A. Boyd
Acts 1:10-11 - Jesus’ Ascension
Why the Bible is Historically Reliable! By Gerhard Pfandl
1 Corinthians 15:17-19 - Without the resurrection, Christianity is futile
How Jesus Became God by Bart D. Ehrman (Athiest New Testament Scholar)
Easter’s Earliest Creed by Daniel Anderson
Gary Habermas YouTube Channel (Resurrection Scholar/Teacher)
John 20:9 - The Apostles didn’t understand the Scripture
Romans 1:4 - Resurrection declares Jesus’ Diety
John 2:19-21 - Jesus foretells His death and resurrection
Romans 4:23-25 - The resurrection is for our justification
1 Peter 1:3 - Regeneration through the resurrection
1 Corinthians 15:17 - We are still in darkness apart from Christ
Colossians 3:1-4 - Desire the things of Christ
Romans 6:4 - We too can walk with a new life
Acts 26:22-23 - Paul sees the Old Testament as pointing to Christ
John 2:22, 12:16 - The disciples remembered and believed the Scripture
Matthew 12:38–40 - Jesus connects the story of Jonah with His resurrection
Is the Resurrection Real document by Sean Duncan (includes all Scripture references)
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EPISODE #38 - THE REALITY OF SHAME (With Todd Wermers)
SUMMARY
Shame can destroy you, but it doesn't have to. The reality is that we all deal with shame when we recognize our humanity and imperfection. The good news is that there is hope when we recognize our shame. In this episode Rick and Brad are joined by Todd Wermers, President & CEO of Tin Man Ministries, to discuss shame, how we respond to our shame, and the freedom from shame we find in the Gospel.
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QUESTIONS DISCUSSED
What is shame and how does it impact our lives?
How can shame lead to idolatry?
Can looking back to our past help us understand our shame?
What are some coping mechanisms we may use for our shame?
How do we walk alongside someone struggling with shame? How do we approach someone about it?
What does the Gospel say about our shame?
RESOURCES/REFERENCES
Genesis 3 - Adam and Eve feel shame
Healing the Shame that Binds You by John Bradshaw
Article on Theory of Attachment
Dan Allender Podcast on The Spectrum of Trauma
2 Corinthians 6:16-18 - God is among us and is our father
The Voice of the Heart: A Call to Full Living by Chip Dodd
John 10:10 - Jesus came so that we can live life abundantly
Contact Tin Man or email jordan@tinman.life
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EPISODE #37 - CHRISTIAN FRIENDSHIP: PART 2 (Hurdles to Friendship)
SUMMARY
If friendship is important to our Christian life, why can it often be hard to prioritize? In this part of our 'Friendship' series, Rick and Brad will talk about some of the hurdles that make friendships hard to pursue. Luckily, the Gospel redeems these hurdles and highlights the importance of Christian friendship.
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QUESTIONS DISCUSSED
What are some hurdles to friendships? Are these hurdles objectively bad things?
How has our society made us value comfort around these hurdles over friendship?
Do we have to give up the things causing the hurdles to gain friendships?
Which hurdles affect what type of person?
Why do some people struggle to make friends with the same sex?
How does the Gospel speak to these hurdles - recognize their place and help us conquer them?
RESOURCES/REFERENCES
TGC Article on friendships as romantic relationships by Sam Aallbery
Ephesians 5:32-33 - Marriage as an image of the Gospel
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EPISODE #36 - UNDERSTANDING IDOLATRY
SUMMARY
This can be uncomfortable, but we hope you'll listen in! We all struggle with sin, but it is tough to admit what our idols are. Though we are created to be worshippers, we often fall short and worship things other than God. In this episode, we can learn how to identify our idols and how we can turn our worship to the one true God.
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QUESTIONS DISCUSSED
Why don’t people like to talk about idolatry? Why is it good to talk about?
What does it mean to be a worshipper? What is worship?
What is idolatry? What do we idolize?
What are surface idols? How do we worship these surface idols?
What are root idols? How do these lead to surface idols?
How do root idols interact or overlap with each other?
How might we feel emotionally based on our root idol? How will others feel based on our root idol? What are we willing to do to protect our idols?
How do we speak the Gospel into idolatry?
How can we deal with this practically? How can we practice this in Christian community?
RESOURCES/REFERENCES
Counterfeit Gods by Tim Keller, commenting on Idolatry
Romans 1:21-25 - We take good things and worship them instead of God
Article about John Calvin on idolatry - “Perpetual Idol Factory”
Hebrews 4:15 - Christ knows temptation, but lived without sin
2 Corinthians 5:21 - Christ lived a perfect, idol-free life that we get to receive by believing in Him
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EPISODE #35 - CHRISTIAN FRIENDSHIP: PART 1 (Heads, Hands & Heart)
SUMMARY
Friendship seems pretty straightforward. However, it can be hard to make true, deep, intimate friendships that last the test of time. Similarly to marriage, Christian friendships can exemplify God's characteristics. So what is Christian friendship? Before figuring out how to be a good friend and what is difficult with friendships, we have to define a Christian, disciple-making friendship. Join Rick and Brad as they dive into this topic.
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QUESTIONS DISCUSSED
How much of a priority should friends be?
Where do we see a model of Biblical friendship?
What is Biblical Christian Friendship?
Is there a difference between secular and Christian friendships?
Why are humans made to desire friendships?
Why should a Christian friendship be between people of the same sex?
Why is it important for Christian friendships to be centered on the Gospel? How does it help you be unconditional? Sacrificial? Free from fear, shame, and guilt?
How can your relationship with Christ reflect in your friendships?
How does understanding our Gospel identity help us identify why friendships may be hard?
How do we pursue Christian friendships intentionally?
Why is it important to give both the hard truth and the Gospel in Christian friendships?
How is open dialogue important in a Christian relationship? How is the Spirit united among the family of faith?
Are we able to ask our friends how we can grow in our head, hands, and heart?
RESOURCES/REFERENCES
Genesis 2:18 - God says Adam alone is not good
Short article on C.S. Lewis' thoughts on friendship
1 Thessalonians 2:8 - Paul is willing to give himself
1 Samuel 18:1-5 - Jonathan and David’s selfless friendship
Matthew 12:46-49 - The importance of spiritual family
Hebrews 3:12-13 - Exhort one another
Hebrews 10:24 - Stir up one another in love
Proverbs 27:6 - Painful truth given by a friend is good
Ephesians 4:16 - The body is built up in love
Acts 20:31-32 - Do not cease admonishing, exporting, etc.
Acts 21:12-14 - Paul receives counsel from his friends through the Spirit
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EPISODE #34 - CHRISTIAN SEXUAL ETHIC
SUMMARY
Our view of sex has been shaped by many factors, including our culture. But sex is a sacred gift from God to humanity. How does the Bible talk about sex and show how God has created sex to be? This may seem like a topic that most people know, but too often the culture makes its way in - shaping an improper ethic within the Church. In this episode, Rick and Brad will look at how Scripture defines sex and how we should and can turn from what culture says about sex and live redeemed, following God’s intent for sex.
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QUESTIONS DISCUSSED
What is the Christian sexual ethic?
Does culture generally disagree with the Christian sexual ethic?
How has culture shaped our view on sex?
Is a wrong view of sex caught or taught?
How does the Bible prove the Christian sexual ethic?
Is sex more than just a physical act?
Why does the Christian sexual ethic seem restrictive in some sense?
What are the parameters of sex in the Bible?
Where is the line drawn for how far you can go sexually?
How do you respond to someone trying to find gray areas?
How does a covenant create the best environment for sex?
Why is it wrong to “test-drive” before you “buy the car”?
What could happen if the Church has a faulty sexual ethic?
How does the Gospel speak to sexual sin and the Christian sexual ethic?
Should we confront those in sexual sin?
RESOURCES/REFERENCES
Genesis 1:28 - Be fruitful and multiply
Genesis 2:24 - Man and woman will become one flesh
Leviticus 18 - Unlawful sexual relations
Deuteronomy 22:13-30 - Laws on sexual immorality
Exodus 20:1-18 - 7th commandment is about sexual immorality
Jeremiah 23:9-15 - Prophecy about ungodly acts
Song of Songs - Celebration of love and intimacy
Proverbs 6:20-7:27 - Warnings about adultery
1 Corinthians 6:12-20 - Paul’s warning about adultery
Hebrews 13:4 - Hold marriage in honor
1 Thessalonians 4:3-8 - abstain from sexual immorality
Romans 6:1-2 - We shouldn’t go on sinning just because Jesus saves us from our sins
Matthew 5:27-29 - Jesus defines adultery and sexual sin
Cleveland Clinic article on oxytocin
TGC article on Early Church Uniqueness by Tim Keller
John 8:1-10 - Whoever is without sin, cast the first stone
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EPISODE #33 - CONSUMERISTIC CHRISTIANITY
SUMMARY
Our culture in the West is filled to the brim with consumerism. We have unlimited choices of restaurants, products, shows, and more - all to fulfill our wants and desires. This reality that we live in day-to-day shapes how we view ourselves and what we think we deserve. Unfortunately, that bleeds into the church as well. In this episode, Rick and Brad dig into the harmful culture of consumerism that leads us to critique the church and choose our church community based on what will fill our "needs" (desires).
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QUESTIONS DISCUSSED
What is nominal Christianity?
What is consumeristic Christianity?
Is consumerism a sin? Is it a tolerated sin in our culture?
Are nominal and consumeristic Christianity the same thing?
Where do we see consumerism in our culture? Where do we see consumerism in the Church?
Is church on Sunday meant for you to be served or for you to serve?
What are the signs of being a consumeristic Christian?
What is the therapeutic gospel?
Is it bad to want to be loved, accepted, or feel significant?
How can we identify a church that is preaching a therapeutic gospel?
How does Christ remove our consumeristic nature from us?
How are we called to live even within our culture of consumerism?
How can we combat being consumeristic?
RESOURCES/REFERENCES
Romans 2:12-29 - Paul’s rebuke of Jews who feel they have moral authority
Sermon talking about dead orthodoxy by Tim Keller
Matthew 23:27 - Jesus tells the Pharisees they are white-washed tombs
1 John 3:16-18 - Jesus says die and lay down our lives
Respectable Sins: Confronting the Sins We Tolerate by Jerry Bridges
Article on modern perspectives of marriage
The Church and the Surprising Offense of God’s Love by Jonathan Leeman (This book is the source for Rick’s comments on the sociologist Anthony Giddens [pg. 45] and stats related to job tenure [pg. 54])
IX Marks article on parachurch ministries
TGC article on parachurch ministries
Desiring God article about seeing the church how God sees it
1 Corinthians 10:31 - Do everything to the glory of God
Therapeutic Gospel Article by David Powlison
Genesis 3:4-6 - The Serpent tells Adam he deserves more
John 13:1-20 - Jesus washes the feet of the disciples
Matthew 16:24-26 - Jesus calls us to die and follow Him
Philippians 2:3 - Count others as more significant
John 13:35 - They will know you are my followers by your love for one another
How to Walk Into Church by Tony Payne
Matthew 20:26-28 - Jesus came to serve, not to be served
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EPISODE #32 - THE FAILURE OF MALE LEADERSHIP
SUMMARY
Men and women were created with roles. In our society, we often see men are not living up to the role that God calls them to. Now, there is always room for grace, but there also needs to be a realization of how men can live in response to the grace that God gives them - striving to be the man, husband, and father that they are created to be. In this episode, Rick and Brad talk about two ways that men tend to fail in our culture. Along with practical advice, listen in to hear how the Gospel calls men to live for more than themselves.
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QUESTIONS DISCUSSED
What is Biblical manhood? How is it different than Biblical womanhood?
Where do we find our definition of “man”? Is it from our culture or God?
How do men mask their true male identity to match what culture says men are?
Where have men failed in their role to lead as husbands and fathers?
What are the sins of commission and omission? What does that practically look like for husbands and fathers?
What are excuses that men can make to feel like they are living up to what it is to be a man?
How does insecurity and shame lead to a failure of male leadership? What leads to this insecurity/shame?
What does the Bible say about the role of a husband and father?
How can someone lean into uncomfortableness to better live out who God has called them to be?
What does it mean for husbands to die for their wives? How can they sacrificially give to their wives?
What are ways that men can start their day thinking about how they can sacrificially serve others above themselves?
What are practical ways a husband and/or father can prioritize sacrificially loving and caring for his family?
How can someone ask their family how they can grow in sacrificially loving them? How can someone ask their Christian peers this same thing?
How can a man get through the awkward or uncomfortable moment of trying to step into true male leadership after not living that way for a while?
RESOURCES/REFERENCES
Ephesians 5:22-24 - Husbands are to love their wives sacrificially and as they love their bodies
Matthew 16:24-28 - Take up your cross, those who die will live
Ephesians 5:31-33 - covenant marriage is an example of Christ’s relationship with the Church
Mark 12:28-31 - Jesus’ summation of the Law
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EPISODE #31 - CAN WOMEN BE PASTORS?
SUMMARY
There are varying understandings in our society when it comes to what the Bible has to say about a variety of topics. Some are more controversial than others. But what does the Bible say about women in ministry? Do we take the Bible seriously throughout the entire text, but nitpick around certain modern-day cultural positions, or do we trust fully in the word of God? Do we truly believe that what God says is for our ultimate good and His glory, even if we don't understand why? In this episode, Rick and Brad break down what Scripture says about women's roles in the church and the potential dangers of lackadaisically allowing modern social ideologies to shape how we read the Bible.
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QUESTIONS DISCUSSED
Can Women be pastors?
What are the two main positions on women in church leadership? What are the key distinctions between the two?
How can you back up these views with Scripture?
Is Egalitarianism un-Biblical?
Is this conversation a die, divide, debate, or decide issue?
Can egalitarians worship at complementary churches and vice versa?
Does culture value the distinctions between men and women?
How do we celebrate the distinctions between men and women?
Is submission to authority bad?
How does God’s created order along with the fall’s reversal order speak to this issue?
What is the curse of sin? Do male and female distinctions come before or after the fall?
How does Jesus’ reversal of the curse allow us to live differently?
Are we restored by Jesus to be the same in roles or to return to our roles in Eden?
How does the main passage used to argue egalitarianism actually argue for complementarianism?
Where does Scripture point us to in order to find our worth?
What does the Bible say about how churches are to be led? Is the Bible talking about the Church today?
Is submission weakness?
Does Paul say women cannot preach because he views them as “less-than“? Is he only talking about the church in Ephesus?
Are elders the same as pastors, shepherds, and overseers?
Are women not allowed to teach at all?
How has culture influenced a negative view of complementarianism?
What are the dangers of the egalitarian view when it comes to Orthodoxy?
So are egalitarians all heretics?
Have there been instances of people abusing complementarianism?
How does a complementarian church show value to women?
Are there limits to who is gifted and what gifts certain people can have?
Can the Kingdom of God be hindered by not allowing women to preach?
RESOURCES/REFERENCES
Complementarianism - Men and women are created equal in worth, value, and dignity, yet have distinct complementary roles
Egalitarianism - Men and women are created equal in worth, value, dignity, and all roles
Genesis 1:27 - God created mankind with distinction, male and female
Genesis 2:18-23 - Woman is created from man
Can Women Be Pastors?, by Greg Gilbert
Genesis 3 - Humanity falls into sin leading to separation from God
Galatians 3:28 - No longer slave or free, Jew or Greek, etc.
1 Timothy 2:11-15 - Women in church
Article with Ligon Duncan quote on the dangers of egalitarianism
Evangelical Feminism: A New Path to Liberalism?, By Wayne Grudem
1 Timothy 3:1-7 - Qualifications for elder
1 Timothy 3:8-13 - Qualifications for deacons & deaconesses
Jesus, Justice, and Gender Roles, by Kathy Keller
Blog of Whitney Woollard - Delighting in Authority: How to Create a Culture of Happy Complementarians
The Pillar New Testament Commentary on 1 Timothy and Titus, by Robert W. Yarbrough
Article by Douglas Moo - What Does It Mean Not to Teach or Have Authority Over Men
Article by Justin Taylor - An Open Letter to Egalitarians about Liberalism
Article on the first ordained woman in the U.S. in 1853
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EPISODE #30 - ON THE STREETS: ENGAGING SOCIETY
SUMMARY
Saints and Society hits the streets! In this episode, Rick and Brad head out into Eugene and onto the University of Oregon campus to ask some questions. Their purpose is twofold: to find out what college students think about morality, truth, and Christianity, as well as attempting to show how conversations can be had as we live in our post-modern society. We hope this is enlightening and helpful for you as you live as a saint in society!
QUESTIONS DISCUSSED
What personal beliefs do college students have?
Are you a part of a church?
What do you think the message of Christianity is?
What are your thoughts on Jesus/the Bible?
Are morality and truth objective? Are people morally good? What is truth?
Have you heard the real Christian message?
Would you go to church?
What are ways Rick and Brad would have approached conversations differently?
What is a worldview?
How important is a personal relationship with those we are having conversations with?
How do you invite someone to church?
RESOURCES/REFERENCES
Strange New World by Carl Trueman
Evangelism in a Skeptical World by Sam Chan
The Madness of Crowds by Douglas Murray
Counterfeit Gods by Tim Keller
The Reason for God by Tim Keller
Evangelism by J. Mack Stiles, 9Marks
Tactics by Gregory Koukl
Questioning Evangelism by Randy Newman
Always Ready by Greg Bahnsen
Expository Apologetics By Voddie Baucham Jr.
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EPISODE #29 - THE STRUGGLE WITH PORNOGRAPHY: PART 3 (THE WIFE'S PERSPECTIVE) (With Jenna Libolt)
SUMMARY
On this third episode of our most listened-to topic, Brad is joined by his wife, Jenna, to take a look at a side of the pornography addiction topic that is often looked over. While it is not only men that deal with pornography addictions, the statistics show that most cases are men. There are also cases where men are married, leading to hard conversations and a rocky season of marriage. It is very difficult for men to confess to their wives, but we also understand how heartbreaking this can be to a wife. Jenna opens up about her feelings and how the community around them helped turn the focus from the sin itself to a desperate need for Jesus.
QUESTIONS DISCUSSED
How can wives feel left out when their husbands confess an addiction to pornography (or other sins)?
What are emotions and thoughts after a husband confesses to a pornography addiction? Are these feelings common?
How did feelings change and what are some things that helped?
What is the process of healing and regaining trust?
What insecurities or shame come up in these situations?
What is the hope for wives in this situation?
How do wives continue to show the grace and love of God to their husbands? What empowers that, which is a hard thing to do?
How much should men confess to their wives? How much to other faithful men?
What are ways that trust is gained back?
How does the Gospel speak to wives whose husband has confessed to a pornography addiction? Where is there freedom?
Are there varying severities of sin?
How does this situation reshape our view of Jesus?
Are the pain and the unknown worth confessing this sin to your wife?
How important is it to have people around you to walk through this situation with you?
RESOURCES/REFERENCES
TGC Article for wives in this situation
Ephesians 6:13 - Sin/evil always exists, but God can help us withstand it
Ezekiel 36:26 - The Spirit will give us a new heart
Luke 17:3 - hold others accountable and forgive
James 5:16 - Confess sins and hold one another accountable
Galatians 6:2 - Carry one another’s burdens
Proverbs 17:17 - Surround yourself with others in adversity
2 Corinthians 12:9 - Though you may feel less-than, God’s grace is sufficient
Psalm 139:13-14 - You are fearfully and wonderfully made in God’s image
Jeremiah 31:3 - God’s love for us is everlasting
Romans 5:5 - There is no shame when we accept God’s love through the gift of the Spirit
1 John 4:8 - Knowing God’s love for us leads us to love others
Proverbs 28:13 - There is no prosperity when withholding sin
Romans 5:1 - You are no longer a sinner in Christ, but a saint
1 Corinthians 10:14-21 - Reject idolatry
John 4:14 - Christ will satisfy
Luke 22:21-23 - Jesus understood betrayal
Isaiah 53:3 - Jesus’ death was not only physical pain, but hurt emotionally as well
Hebrews 4:15 - Jesus understands the human condition
Romans 5:20–21 - Though there is sin, God’s grace is greater
Romans 3:23 - Truth that all have sinned
2 Peter 3:9 - God is faithful and desires our repentance
Lamentations 3:22 - God’s love is steadfast and never-ending
Deuteronomy 31:8 - You are not forgotten and God is with you
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EPISODE #28 - DOES GOD SPEAK TO YOU? (With Ronny Gogan)
SUMMARY
Living in Christian spheres, you may have heard the phrase "God told me..." or "God wanted me to tell you...". Are these people modern-day prophets? What do they mean if they say God spoke to them? Many times people may claim that God has spoken audibly to them. Can this be true? Rick, Brad, and Ronny look at how to biblically engage in conversations with those who say this, the ways that God speaks to us today, and how claiming to hear from God can be harmful to a Christian community. We hope this conversation is helpful and points to the Bible and Jesus as the true Word of God.
QUESTIONS DISCUSSED
How do we navigate a conversation with someone who says they have heard from God?
Is it possible for God to speak to someone? How does He (audibly, through Scripture, etc.)?
How can saying you can hear from God be harmful to others?
Should Christians refrain from saying “God spoke to me”, or “God told me this”?
How can we figure out if God is actually speaking to us/someone? What does Scripture say about how He will talk to us?
What is the difference between desires and God’s guidance?
Why do people want to hear God audibly?
Who does God speak to audibly in the Bible? What is the importance of the exclusivity of this?
Do all of our decision need to be made through hearing directly from God?
Is the Bible, God’s Word, sufficient for hearing from God?
How does the Gospel speak to hearing God audibly and how God has revealed Himself to us?
Is it okay that we want God to talk to us?
Does God communicate for individual gain or for the benefit of His people?
RESOURCES/REFERENCES
Matthew 12:38 - Jesus, God’s word, speaks as evidence to the Pharisees
Gospel and Wisdom by Graeme Goldsworthy
1 Samuel 3:21 - God reveals Himself through the Word of the Lord
2 Timothy 3:16-17 - Scripture equips us
2 Peter 1:3 - God’s knowledge is given to us through the Word
John 1:1-5 - Jesus is the Word
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EPISODE #27 - SPEAKING IN TONGUES (With Ronny Gogan)
SUMMARY
There are many traditions that practice speaking in tongues. Some may think it's weird, while others may see it as a divine blessing from God. But what does Scripture have to say about this often divisive topic? While the topic of speaking in tongues is not salvific, it may have an impact on how the church, Christ's body, is edified and reconciled - both with God and with each other. Rick and Ronny take on this interesting topic in this episode.
QUESTIONS DISCUSSED
Is speaking in tongues an important core doctrine of the church?
What is the gift of speaking in tongues supposed to look like Biblically? What was its purpose?
Do we believe those who say they speak in tongues?
What kind of gifts does God give to the Church? For individuals or for the whole Church?
What might be going on with those thinking they can speak in tongues? Can social pressures be a cause?
What are Paul’s directions for speaking in tongues? How different is it from contemporary speaking in tongues?
Why don’t interpreters show up in contemporary speaking in tongues?
How was speaking in tongues helpful for unbelievers in the early church and not helpful today?
How does speaking in tongues as a private prayer language hurt the church as a whole? Is it actually beneficial in prayer?
How does the Bible teach us to pray? Is it in tongues?
Is it possible for God to give the gift of tongues today? How does that look different than the gibberish we hear in charismatic churches today?
What is the purpose for speaking in tongues today? Is it for individuals or the Church?
How does contemporary “gifts of the spirit” parallel non-christian worship?
Is our Christian worship supposed to look the same or distinct from the world?
Does the Bible differentiate between speaking in other languages and gibberish?
Is genuine prayer for your church, community, family, etc. more meaningful than praying in tongues?
Is it unloving to pray over someone in tongues that they do not understand? How can it misguide a new believer?
Where is tongues talked about in church history?
How does the Gospel speak to tongues and how do we speak with others about this?
How can we respond to a gifting that God has given to others and not us?
RESOURCES/REFERENCES
Genesis 11:1–9 - Tower of Babel scattering people groups
Acts 2:4-12 - Foreigners hear the Gospel in their own native tongue from the Apostle’s
Video on Acts as a descriptive text
Article on descriptive vs. prescriptive texts
1 Corinthians 14:26-29 - Few people speaking with an interpreter
1 Corinthians 14:23 - Outsides will think the church is crazy
1 Corinthians 14:33 - God is not a God of confusion
1 Corinthians 14:6-12 - Speaking in tongues was to build up the church
Video of Kundalini worship
Galatians 5:22-23 - Fruits of the Spirit
1 Corinthians 14:13-15 - Prayer and singing must be coherent and understood
Romans 8:26-27 - The Spirit intercedes for us
1 Corinthians Commentary by John MacArthur (reference on page 361)
Article on false second blessing theology
Article on Pentecostalism
John 14:6 - One way to God
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EPISODE #26 - EATING DISORDERS (With Chelsey Duncan)
SUMMARY
Eating disorders take many different forms. Maybe the struggle is with eating too much, or maybe under-eating or purging what was already eaten. This is a sensitive topic, and we are thankful that Chelsey Duncan was able to come on the show! Chelsey talks with Rick and Brad about her past eating disorder as well as the life-changing work of Jesus that helped her identity belong to the Savior instead of what culture might say is important. We hope this episode is helpful for you, whether you struggle with an eating disorder or know someone that does.
QUESTIONS DISCUSSED
What are eating disorders? What are symptoms of them?
What is Chelsey’s story with her eating disorder?
What are idols that may instigate an eating disorder? How may these idols hide the truth of the disorder?
What are ways that can help focus turn to Christ instead of on the eating disorder?
How long does a struggle with food last? Is it the same for everyone? Are there still hiccups even when your struggle is over?
Where is the line drawn between an eating disorder and someone who is health conscious? Is there an overlap? Are eating disorders over- or under-diagnosed?
Do other mental health issues affect eating disorders? Does anxiety, depression, etc., stem from or cause eating disorders?
What are the warning signs that one may have an eating disorder? How can those warning signs be justified in a state of denial?
Are eating disorders a female issue? How many men struggle with eating disorders? How do they manifest differently between genders?
Does diagnosing a large number of eating disorders perpetuate good health consciousness into a legitimate eating disorder?
Is the term “disorder” a helpful term in talking about these issues? Can the word “disorder” be used as an excuse to forego finding true healing?
How does affirming someone with an eating disorder (with good intentions) actually harm that person?
Can the secular world actually help someone with an eating disorder?
What cultural forces contribute to eating disorders? Is social media the biggest factor?
How do our daily conversations affect people around us? Does “fat talk” and “old talk” affect others?
How early do kids start thinking about their weight or body image?
How is the Gospel good news for those with eating disorders? How do we exhort Christians with eating disorders?
How does Scripture shape how we view ourselves in light of who God says that we are?
How can we encourage those struggling?
Will this be a lifelong struggle?
How can we practically respond to someone who we see is showing the signs? Can we fix it with a 10-step process?
RESOURCES/REFERENCES
Articles on the types of eating disorders
Help for eating disorders - Nationally - Locally (Eugene, OR)
Article on how men present eating orders differently
Article on eating disorders in men
Article on eating disorders vs. disordered eating
Article on cultural and societal factors leading to eating disorders
TGC Article - Things to know about body issues
Romans 5:8 - Jesus dies for us and grants us worth as children of God
1 Corinthians 6:12-20 - Our body is a temple
1 Peter 2:22 - Jesus never sinned
2 Corinthians 5:21 - Jesus took our sins and gave us His perfection
TGC Article - Ways to Help a Christian Friend with an Eating Disorder
Romans 8 - Christ changes us
Galatians 2:20 - Christ lives within us
Romans 12 - Be transformed by Jesus
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EPISODE #25 - WATERED DOWN GOSPEL: PART 2 (LDS & Jehovah's Witnesses) (With Ronny Gogan)
SUMMARY
We're back again to talk about "churches" that claim to be Christian, yet add something to the free gift of salvation that God gives those who believe in His son. When Mormon elders or Jehovah's Witnesses come to your door, they might appear as though they understand the Gospel. But what do they add to it that makes salvation our role instead of a gift of grace that only God can provide? Join Brad and Ronny as they break down these two cults.
QUESTIONS DISCUSSED
What is a “watered-down Gospel”? How severe are these watered-down Gospels to those who believe them?
Are LDS or JW (among others) actually Christian?
Who are the LDS? (See resources for a more full understanding)
How do Mormons differ from Christians? Do they use the Bible?
How do we reconcile ourselves back to Christ?
What does the LDS church add to the Gospel? What are the distinctions between LDS and Christianity?
If non-Mormon Christians live out a Chrisitan life, where would they end up according to the Mormon belief?
What is Pascal’s Wager? Can it be a useful argument?
How do LDS believe someone is saved? Is it only through a gift of Grace?
How is Mormon and JW evangelism different than the evangelism Christians are called to?
What is the source of authority and salvation for LDS and JW?
How confident can Mormons be in their salvation?
What Scripture can be used to combat false beliefs?
Who are the Jehovah’s Witnesses? What do they claim that is different than Christianity?
Do JW know more about the original translations of the Bible? Do they truly know the Greek/Hebrew writings?
Why is it hard to believe in the Trinity, but not other incomprehensible characteristics of God?
What are ways that humanity tries to understand God by limiting Him to our image?
How is the JW Bible translated differently? Do they believe their Bible is the only true translation?
How do JW and LDS distort “who is God?” and “how are we saved?”
How are people saved in JW?
Do we really need to do works to be saved or is it just the fruit of our salvation?
Are LDS and JW orthodox Christianity/proper theology?
How do we interact and engage in conversation lovingly and graciously with LDS and JW? How can we be evangelistic?
Does spending more time in the Bible help you see false doctrine?
Is it better to counter LDS or JW beliefs or to evangelize with the Gospel message?
Where does our hope come from? Why should we be ready to defend that hope?
RESOURCES/REFERENCES
Matthew 7:21-23 - Not everyone will enter heaven
Overview of the LDS church history
TGC Article on Mormonism
Timeline that is believed by the LDS church
Article on Who Authored the Book of Mormon
Beliefs of LDS Article (Scroll to Common Myths of LDS)
Pascal’s Wager - In-depth
Article on the LDS levels of heaven
Book of Mormon, 2 Nephi 25:23 - Grace and works lead to salvation
Mormon Article of Faith 3 - “All mankind may be saved by obedience”
JW.org - Learn firsthand from the organization
Psalm 110 - Prophecying Jesus’ work of salvation for Israel as confirmed in Hebrews 5
Watchtower Article falsely claims the possibility to fall from grace
Arianism - A quick overview
Acts 16:31 - “You WILL be saved”
Luke 13:23-24 - “Enter through the narrow door…”, can be related to John 10:9 where Jesus calls himself the door
JW Article - Is Belief in Jesus Enough for Salvation?
James 2:14-17 - Faith without works is dead
Romans 10:9 - Confess with your heart for salvation, full stop
Ephesians 2:8-10 - Through God’s grace we have faith and are saved
Romans 5:15-18 - Free gift of salvation from God
John 6:29 - Believe in Jesus
John 14:6-7 - Only way to the Father is through Christ
Acts 4:12 - No other name can save
100 Bible verses to memorize countering Mormonism
1 Corinthians 2:2 - Know nothing but Christ crucified
Romans 1:16 - There is power in the Gospel
1 Peter 3:15 - Be prepared to make a defense
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EPISODE #24 - ABORTION: PART 2 (With Ronny Gogan)
SUMMARY
In this follow-up to our popular episode on abortion, Rick and Brad look at theological and philosophical arguments for the pro-life argument with help from Ronny Gogan. While the last episode on abortion was helpful to understand abortion medically, this time will have a deeper biblical look at the topic.
QUESTIONS DISCUSSED
Why are we doing a part 2 on this topic?
How does this conversation on the podcast look differently than a conversation with people out in the world?
What is the Christian position on abortion? Is this a “die-for” position?
What are Biblical defenses for this Christian position?
What are the objections to Biblical arguments? Are there Biblical objections?
Is there a difference between murder and killing?
What are philosophical arguments against pro-life? Are they based in Scripture? How do they fall apart?
What are reasonable hypotheticals that are grounded in reality that point to pro-life?
Is abortion truly “health” care? Does pro-life mean even if the woman is in danger of losing her life?
Why is childbearing difficult? How does our culture react when things are difficult?
How would you respond to arguments about bodily autonomy and the right to only care for yourself? Are we called to care for others?
What is the S.L.E.D. argument?
What about the cases of rape and incest? Does God/do Christians actually care about this injustice? What is justice in these awful instances?
How has language been changed to make the idea of killing a baby more tolerable?
Do men have the right to talk about these issues that women are at the forefront of?
How does this topic affect the flourishing of our society?
How do we see devaluing children in our society, even outside of the womb?
How does the Gospel speak to the topic of abortion?
RESOURCES/REFERENCES
Exodus 21:22 - God acknowledges life in the womb
Exodus 21:18 - Perscription by God for men in a tustle
Luke 1:39-45 - John the baptist responds in the womb of Elizabeth
Psalm 139:13 - God knits us in our mother’s womb
Genesis 3 - The serpent singles out the woman
Exodus 1 - God saved Israel after children were put to death
Leviticus 20:1-8 - People being extinguished for child sacrifice
Mark 9:42 - Don’t cause little ones to sin
Judges 13:5 - Samson had a calling since in the womb
Deuteronomy 1:16, 16:18 - Judges have the ability to judge the people
Numbers 35:24 - Biblical jury of peers
The Violin Argument by Judith Jarvis Thomson - “Philosophical” arguments for pro-choice
Luke 10:25-37 - The good Samaritan, caring for others
James 1:27 - Take care of orphans and widows
S.L.E.D. argument for pro-life
Article on Iceland testing if kids have down-syndrome before they are born
Article on the truth about Autism Speaks
Genesis 45:4-15 - Joseph recognizes God’s hand in the hardship of his life
Romans 8:28-30 - All things are worked for good
Deuteronomy 22:25 - Standards of the death penalty
Ecclesiastes 8:11 - Lack of quick justice leads to more evil
Ezekiel 18:20 - The son shouldn’t be punished for the father
Fetus - Latin for baby
Proverbs 24:11 - Hold back those being led to the slaughter
Matthew 18:1-5 - Become like a child to be saved
Genesis 1:28 - Humanity is called to multiply
Romans 8:1 - No condemnation in Christ
Romans 4:7-8 - Blessed are those whose sins are covered
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EPISODE #23 - WHEN TO LEAVE A CHURCH & HOW TO DO IT WELL
SUMMARY
You've realized the call from God to be a part of a church and now you have been attending one for a few weeks. Something doesn't feel right. The music doesn't get you going, the preaching is boring and never reads from Scripture, and no one has come to introduce themselves to you. Should you leave that church? Based on this scenario, there might be a reason or two to consider leaving. But what are they? Rick and Brad seek to Biblically answer that question in this conversation about when and how to leave a church.
QUESTIONS DISCUSSED
What are the black-and-white reasons to leave a church?
What is a true church?
What is Orthodox Doctrine? What are examples of churches that do not teach Orthodox Doctrine?
How do you know if a church is a true church?
Can you go to a false church with a “missionary” mindset in an attempt to change the false church?
What are some churches that are not true churches?
What are the grey areas that may lead to further conversation with the leadership of a true church?
How can you tell the health of a church? What are important things that a church should do?
When should you think about leaving a church based on the preaching? Based on the music? Based on the community? Based on church leadership?
What are justification and sanctification?
Is preaching the Gospel every week that important?
Is emotional and/or high-quality music bad?
What do I do if joining community is not very easy? What if it seems like there is no shared interests?
How important is a plurality of elders in a church?
How can we tell if church leaders are healthy leaders?
Should you leave a church based on the grey areas before talking through it with a pastor?
How do we respond to a true church that is showing signs of unhealth?
If leaving is the proper step, how do we leave a church?
RESOURCES/REFERENCES
Augsburg Confession - Lutheran statement of faith
Summary of John Calvin’s Institutes of the Christian Religion
Calvin’s thoughts summarized in 9 Marks of a Healthy Church by Mark Dever - Calvin’s view of a true church
9Marks - Building a Healthy Church
1 Corinthians 1 & 2 - The Gospel is the thing that saves us and that continues to save and grow us
Luke 24:13-35 - Jesus talking with followers on road to Emmaus
Charles Spurgeon - “All roads lead to London”
John 5:39-47 - Jesus tells Pharisees of Him being written about by Moses
2 Timothy 3:16 - All Scripture is sufficient to reveal the availability of salvation
Deeper by Dane Ortlund
Look and Live by Matt Papa
Christ-Centered Exposition by Dr. R. Albert Mohler Jr. Ph.D. (Author), Dr. Daniel L. Akin, David Platt, and Tony Merida (Editors)
Christ-Centered Preaching by Bryan Chapell
Why Johnny Can’t Preach by T. David Gordon
Summary of Dietrich Bonhoeffer’s take on the Christian community
Acts 14:23; 16:4; 20:17; 21:18; Titus 1:5; James 5:14 - New testament scripture referring to ‘elders’ as plural
1 Timothy 3 - Requirements of a Biblical leader
Titus 1 - Elder Qualifications
1 Peter 5:1-11 - Shepherds should be among the sheep
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EPISODE #22 - LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX: PART 2 (With Ali Reeves)
SUMMARY
Is it Biblical for a man to expect sex from his wife? What about for a woman to expect an emotional connection from her husband? Are there extra stipulations we put on our sex with our spouse in order for our needs to be met? These questions might feel awkward and personal, but can be vital to a healthy sex life in marriage. These questions and more are discussed as Brad, Rick, and Ali revisit the topic of sex.
QUESTIONS DISCUSSED
Who are we talking to?
How does sin impact our sex lives?
What stipulations do women have before they will have sex with their husband? Are they Biblical?
What stipulations do men have before they pursue their wife emotionally? Are they Biblical?
Is it Biblical to deny your spouse sex? Emotions? Back rubs?
What does the Bible say about how spouses are to treat each other in terms of this topic?
How has society changed the word and the meaning of “sex” to reduce the relational aspect of it?
What is the Doctrine of Union? What does sex have to do with unity with Christ?
How does the Gospel speak to our insecurities, failures, and sex lives?
How should we approach sex in our marriage with a Gospel lens? How do we view our spouse through a Gospel lens?
How do we move to an attitude of sacrifice toward our spouse instead of selfishness?
What is the difference between expectations and conditions?
How can we see sex as a way to deeply know and serve our spouse?
Can sex protect from the enemy? Does it increase the unity of the marriage?
Is sex something we do after we know a spouse, or is it the process of getting to know them?
How can seeing sex as a discipline help our attitude toward sex?
What if sex is painful?
What are some helpful thoughts to men and women listening?
RESOURCES/REFERENCES
Proverbs 12:4 - Excellent wives are a crown
1 Corinthians 7 - Principles for Marriage
Genesis 2:23-25 - Adam and eve becoming one flesh
Genesis 21:1-3 - Translated from “Abraham knew Sarah”
Matthew 7:21-23 - Not everyone who thinks they know Jesus will enter heaven
Doctrine of Union - TGC
1 Corinthians 6:12-20 - Don’t unite with a prostitute
1 Corinthians 13 - Love is patient
1 Peter 2:19 - 3:7 - Pursue your spouse unconditionally
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